US Immigration focuses on US education issues: Every parent has their own parenting methods and insights. However, are those methods the most correct and effective??Are parents giving their children what they truly need in their hearts??The following20educational concepts were written by an American kindergarten principal from a child's perspective; mothers may wish to take them as a reference.
1、Do not spoil me. I know very well that I should not get everything I ask for; my crying is actually just testing you.
2、Do not be afraid to be fair with me; it actually makes me feel secure.
3、Do not let me develop bad habits; at this young age, I rely on you to judge and cultivate me.
4、Do not make me feel smaller than I actually am; this will only make me pretend to be silly in a way that does not match my actual age.
5、If possible, try not to correct my mistakes in front of others; I will feel embarrassed and then act against you. It is more effective if you remind me in private.
6、Do not make me feel that making a mistake is a crime; it will weaken my hope for life.
7、Do not take it to heart when I say "I hate you." I definitely do not hate you; I hate the pressure you place on me.
8、Do not overprotect me, fearing that I cannot accept certain "consequences." Often, I need to learn through painful experiences.
9、Do not pay too much attention to my minor aches and pains. Sometimes, I just want your attention.
10、Do not nag me, or I will pretend to be deaf and dumb.
11、Do not make promises to me in a hurry. When you cannot keep your word, I will be sad and will also look down on your future promises.
12、I cannot explain things very clearly yet, even though I sometimes seem quite smart.
13、Do not count on my honesty too much; I am easily prone to lying out of fear.
14、Please do not be inconsistent in your disciplinary principles. This will confuse me and cause me to lose trust in you.
15、When I ask you questions, please do not brush me off or reject me. Otherwise, I will stop asking and turn elsewhere for answers.
16、When I am afraid, do not think I am silly or ridiculous. If you try to understand, you will realize how terrified I was at that moment.
17、Do not imply to me that you are always right and flawless. What a blow it will be to me when I discover that you are not.
18、Do not think that apologizing to me is undignified. A sincere apology will bring me closer to you, make me respect you more, and make me feel warmer.
19、Do not forget that I like to try things myself rather than being told the results by you.
20、Do not forget that I will grow up soon. For you, growing up with me is not an easy thing, but please try it.