Canadians are not as casual as Americans; most receptions are held in hotels and clubs. If you are invited to a Canadian's home, you may send or bring a bouquet of flowers for the hostess in advance. However, do not give white lilies, as in Canada, white lilies are only used at funerals. Holding an open door for the person behind you to pass through first is a gesture of etiquette that is highly appreciated. Smiling and saying "Hi" to strangers on the street or in an elevator is a sign of friendliness.
Upon first meeting, a handshake and the question "How are you?" are standard. Usually, this conventional phrase does not require a literal answer; simply say, "Fine, thanks." At the end of a conversation, it is common to say, "Have a nice day/evening/weekend." Neighbors, colleagues, and people waiting in reception areas often engage in informal conversation. Even in business settings, informal conversation often takes place at the beginning or end of meetings.
Avoid loud discussions or arguments in public places. Even if a conflict occurs in public, such as a car accident, strive to remain calm. Speaking in another language in front of people who do not understand it is considered rude. Staring at people is also extremely impolite. New immigrants should maintain a calm attitude toward the behavior of Canadians and avoid overreacting. Many reactions that may seem like "racial discrimination" might simply stem from a lack of understanding, curiosity, or surprise. Do not immediately assume you have been offended or jump to conclusions about racial discrimination.
