1. "I met her when I was 35. Before that, I had started to think there was no one in this world suitable for me."
2. "I ran off to California for a week without telling anyone. I wanted to find a solution to some things by getting away from everything. But in fact, that brought more problems, and I realized later: I was actually wrong."
"What do you mean?"
"If you can't solve a problem in your current environment, no matter how far you run, you won't be able to solve it."
3. "We met in August, started dating in September, got engaged in October, and married in November; that was 43 years ago."
4. "What is the happiest moment in your life?"
"When I got hit by a car."
"When you got hit by a car?"
"They paid me $16,000 in compensation."
5. "The best thing about New York is that as long as you sit in one place long enough, the opportunities of the whole world will eventually come to find you."
6. "When we got married, he was about to become a surgeon, in residency training. One night he came home after working for two days, and I made him dinner. He fell asleep over his plate just before asking me what movie I wanted to watch. I think that was sweet."
7. "I cannot return to my country because I am a political refugee, and I haven't seen my family for 31 years."
8. "We are ophthalmologists."
"Please tell me something about eyes that most people don't realize."
"The eyes see objects and finally transmit them to the brain, so strictly speaking, human vision functions in the brain; the eyes are just transmission tools. Everything we see depends on the brain and not the eyes, and the brain is also influenced by memories, emotions, and things we have seen before."
9. "I am married and have several stepchildren, and life is going pretty well."
"What is your greatest achievement to date?"
"My family doesn't hate me~"
10. "I don't ask questions often because I want the company to know that hiring me was the right decision."
11. "Working and going home every day, it's easiest to lose yourself when under a lot of pressure. I often remind myself that I already possess many of the most wonderful things, for example, I have three lovely children~"
12. "My mother often poured out her grievances to me when I was a child, which made me feel I had to be strong, but while I was becoming stronger, I lost my own tenderness. It was he who made me change."
